Unhappy weekend

Pouring my feelings. What would you feel if you are me? This story goes back to indecisive friend, J. J has been having a few problems here and there with her career and friends. I don't mind listening... and at times will offer her some advice whenever I can. At times I pity her, because she lack of friends. Either they tend to move on without her or something just happen. As for my part, I never question why this happen. But then, I guess, I should start thinking. Numerous things have been talked about, sometimes we have some little debates but often nothing serious, but sometimes what she said prick me.... and come to think of it, I can't take it anymore.

Unhappy weekend
J's birthday on Saturday. J have not been talking to Y for almost 2 years because of an argument. What it is I don't know and I don't ask. Not my problem anyway. Since then, J has been turning to me most of the time when she is depressed. Y being a good friend called me on Saturday evening acquiring J's HP no. I gave without second thought. I was in the bridal shop accompanying H, my best friend choosing her wedding gown. I mentioned to H on that phone call. H said, Y is likely wanted to wish J birthday. So, I was thinking 'Finally, all the misunderstanding will be forgotten'. Half an hour later, J called, I can't talk as I am still in the bridal shop. I sms her with wishes and then promise to call on Sunday because I reached home at 9.30 and I am very tired. I even rejected her call at 11.30pm. The next morning at 8.30am.... my HP rang... I am still groggy.....
J : Are you still asleep?

Me: Yes.

J: Who gave my phone no to Y? I think whoever did, should asked for my permission first. (furiously...)

Me: I dunno lor....(groggily.. I wanted to admit that I did, but when she started of like that I changed my mind...)

J: How come she knows I am working in XXX and how come she knows I quitted?

Me: Maybe somebody told her gua...(I met Y 3 months back on another friend's wedding. Out of good intention, Y did as me how is J, and if I still keep good contact with her and where is she working now. To me, all these are standard questions. Unless you are a criminal or superstar, I don't think there is anything to hide on where you are working. But, i honestly did not tell Y that she has quitted as at that time, J is still in XXX.)

J: You did not talk to her?

Me: Where have I got the time?

J: Is she invited to H's wedding to be 'ji mui'?

Me: I don't know, you asked H. ( Actually Y was invited)

J: If she is, then I don't think I am interested.

Me: You tell H.

Sick.... this is sick. It feels like we are being threatened to choose between her and another friend for her personal feelings. I think I have been too accomodating to her. Maybe I should just give her the slap on the face she deserved rather than soothing her. I pitied her, having less friends and nobody to turn on at times. But with this kind of attitude, it is not surprising that people will walk away from you. This is just too much.... Y already making effort to make up to J first, but J is just too much and too childish. I am very pissed off with her attitude and also very sad, while she take the whole thing so differently.

Happy things

Yup, something that stirred me into a healthy happy laughs.Hehehehee.... read this:

a) Lay baby???

Well, pig_angel was trying to gather the lot to celebrate a friend's birthday. One of the friend's sms goes like this.
Pig_angel: This saturday, we will celebrate JT's and Tortoise's hubby to be's birthday. We meet at my place at 7.00pm. JT to fetch the Cat.

Cat : I cannot confirm, but I will try to rush back on time. Might be going to visit my friend who just lay baby.

Pig_angel was astounded... and then laugh out loud like maniac. Lay baby??? Like lay eggs??? hahahahaa... gave birth la..... adui.

b) Ever bought yourself a birthday cake?

Tortoise hubby : Have you ever bought yourself a birthday cake on your birthday?

Tortoise looks so embarrased. The story is like this. Tortoise supposed to celebrate birthday with hubby to be on Friday nite. Have promised that she will leave office at 6.00pm. But at 6.15pm...
Tortoise hubby: You are still in office?

Tortoise: I am coming ... coming !

Tortoise's colleague : Woi... cepat balik lor....

Finally, she left at 6.30pm. Ah... reached home and depart for dinner. Reached the dinner place, Tortoise hubby bring out a birthday cake from back seat. Tortoise shocked cause she has forgotten about cake!!

Tortoise: How come you bought a cake? I should be buying.

Tortoise hubby : I am gambling on it. Knew you will forget.

Hahahahahaa.... Tortoise felt so guilty. Shame on you gal!.

Tortoise hubby: Pig_angel, you want a piece of cake as breakfast tomorrow?

Hahahahaha.. bless you guys.

On Leave

Ah... bowling tournament is finally over. hehehehe... Social Committee finished 6th place. Not bad for a team of members who did not really practise. And I scored 196 pins total of 2 games. Dom got 206. So much for 'be prepared to lose' - have to rub on him when i am back to work. Hehehee. Finally got to see how he looks like.Not bad looking really.. but then pig_angel did not go intro herself, cause his ogre team member is there. But I know he saw me.. and I also saw him. We eyed each other from far lor.... hahahaha funny right? Damn, I should go over and kacau him a bit... hehehehe. Anyway, the major success is that I manage to drive alone to IOI mall... yippeee.... Oh, confession, I am not the type of person who is brave enough to venture to new area. Actually before this, I already have friend to take me over to find the way.. heheehehe. So on Sunday, it shouldn't be a problem, still I leave early and drive super-slow to make sure I don't miss the turning. Have fun though!

I am actually growing mushroom at home.. to be honest. On leave, yes I am, but then I did not go anywhere. Thanks to an indecisive friend. One moment saying want to go Genting, had me log into the net to search for offer, next telling me that not interested anymore. Changed her mind to Sarawak or Sabah. Again, I searched in the air asia... and she calculate left and right.. decided it is out of her budget, might as well go for Bangkok with the price she is paying... again, I searched through the net.. end up, she said no money. So abandon mission to visit anywhere. Sigh.. lucky, I still have books and anime to accompany me... otherwise I can start selling mushrooms after this holiday... sad huh?

Changed my image. Got my hair rebonded again and this time with colour... I am a red head now... hahahaha. Don't know if I will be shocking anybody tomorrow, but it is good to be a bit different sometimes. Anyway, work for a day tomorrow then weekend... yeah!!!!!!!! Some more tomorrow is a Friday... wahahahahaa.... My mail box will have been exploded, so first thing is to clear the mail box. Oh... we might have to move our seat too.... a lot of things huh???

Hopefully I will be recharged after this and work better... ganbatte!!