Unhappy weekend

Pouring my feelings. What would you feel if you are me? This story goes back to indecisive friend, J. J has been having a few problems here and there with her career and friends. I don't mind listening... and at times will offer her some advice whenever I can. At times I pity her, because she lack of friends. Either they tend to move on without her or something just happen. As for my part, I never question why this happen. But then, I guess, I should start thinking. Numerous things have been talked about, sometimes we have some little debates but often nothing serious, but sometimes what she said prick me.... and come to think of it, I can't take it anymore.

Unhappy weekend
J's birthday on Saturday. J have not been talking to Y for almost 2 years because of an argument. What it is I don't know and I don't ask. Not my problem anyway. Since then, J has been turning to me most of the time when she is depressed. Y being a good friend called me on Saturday evening acquiring J's HP no. I gave without second thought. I was in the bridal shop accompanying H, my best friend choosing her wedding gown. I mentioned to H on that phone call. H said, Y is likely wanted to wish J birthday. So, I was thinking 'Finally, all the misunderstanding will be forgotten'. Half an hour later, J called, I can't talk as I am still in the bridal shop. I sms her with wishes and then promise to call on Sunday because I reached home at 9.30 and I am very tired. I even rejected her call at 11.30pm. The next morning at 8.30am.... my HP rang... I am still groggy.....
J : Are you still asleep?

Me: Yes.

J: Who gave my phone no to Y? I think whoever did, should asked for my permission first. (furiously...)

Me: I dunno lor....(groggily.. I wanted to admit that I did, but when she started of like that I changed my mind...)

J: How come she knows I am working in XXX and how come she knows I quitted?

Me: Maybe somebody told her gua...(I met Y 3 months back on another friend's wedding. Out of good intention, Y did as me how is J, and if I still keep good contact with her and where is she working now. To me, all these are standard questions. Unless you are a criminal or superstar, I don't think there is anything to hide on where you are working. But, i honestly did not tell Y that she has quitted as at that time, J is still in XXX.)

J: You did not talk to her?

Me: Where have I got the time?

J: Is she invited to H's wedding to be 'ji mui'?

Me: I don't know, you asked H. ( Actually Y was invited)

J: If she is, then I don't think I am interested.

Me: You tell H.

Sick.... this is sick. It feels like we are being threatened to choose between her and another friend for her personal feelings. I think I have been too accomodating to her. Maybe I should just give her the slap on the face she deserved rather than soothing her. I pitied her, having less friends and nobody to turn on at times. But with this kind of attitude, it is not surprising that people will walk away from you. This is just too much.... Y already making effort to make up to J first, but J is just too much and too childish. I am very pissed off with her attitude and also very sad, while she take the whole thing so differently.